Causes Of Loss Of Sexual Desire
* Depression: If a woman suffers from depression, then she’s not going to want to have sex. If she gets help for her depression first, then her libido will probably go up by itself. A woman may also suffer depression after a hysterectomy, equating the loss of her uterus with the loss of youth, femininity, and beauty. If her ovaries are also removed, the woman is thrown in to “early menopause,” which brings its own set of problems. If you are feeling low and have recently had a total hysterectomy, speak with your doctor and consider counseling.
* Childbirth: A new mom sometimes get so emotionally tied up with her baby, not to mention so tired from lack of sleep, that she loses interest in sex. The dad, who may have stopped having sex with her during the last month or two of pregnancy, and who gave her the time she needed to recover from the effects of giving birth, may begin to get testy after several months have gone by.
Although new mothers may have some very good excuses, it is often a mistake to use them. You may have to make a conscious effort to put the spark back into your sex life, and you should do it. Get a grandparent to baby-sit (they’ll love it) or hire a baby-sitter and go out with your husband for a romantic evening. If the baby is a light sleeper, or if there are other distractions in the house, rent a motel room. But don’t just let sex slide. A new mom without a husband is not a good position to be in.
* Menopause: The production of a woman’s sex hormones declines during menopause, causing certain side effects that can affect a woman’s sex life. But menopause does not have to mean an end to sex. In fact, many women find they have a stronger desire for sex after menopause because they no longer have to worry about becoming pregnant. Plus, this is a time when women and their husbands have more privacy because their kids have grown up and moved out.
You may have to make some adjustments for menopause, like using a lubricant, but you can still have a satisfactory sex life.
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