Some seasons of life Impact Sexing in Marriage
Some seasons of life are exceptionally stressful. A young married couple with small children is caught between the stressors of a young man’s high sex drive and the monumental exhaustion that comes from the wife’s role as mother of small children. If this is you:
- First, avoid blaming each other. Face this problem together.
- Change the pattern of your life–radically if you need to (and I don’t mean giving away the children!) for the sake of your marriage. Cut outside commitments and in-home expectations in order to give yourselves more energy and time together.
- Keep up and work hard on all the other aspects of your relationship.
- Make sure each of you are doing a fair share of the child-rearing.
- Hire a babysitter or exchange free babysitting with friends in order to have time alone.
- Keep a sense of humor as much as possible. This is a situation that many, many couples have to work through, not just you. You’ll make it through.
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